seduction strategies. 24 rules for your pleasure
Flo says...
When you work hard, Play hard. DO NOT let others control your life. You make your own rules.
There are consequences.
I will post a few seduction rule each post. For more details the book is by Robert Green.
For those who do not have time to read, I recommend audio books.
1. THE SIREN
A man is often secretly oppressed by the role he has to play, and by always having to be responsible, in control, and rational.
The Siren is the ultimate male FANTASY figure because she offers a total release from the limitations of his life. In her presense which is always heightened and sexually charged, the male feels transported to a realm of PURE PLEASURE.
In a world where women are often too timid to project such an image, learn to take control of the MALE LIBIDO by embodying his fantasy.
2. THE RAKE
A woman never quite feels desired and appreciated enough.
She wants attention, but a man is too often distracted and unresponsive.
The Rake is a great female FANTASY-FIGURE for when he desires a woman, brief though that moment may be, he will go to the ends of the earth for her. He may disloyal, dishonest, and AMORAL but that only adds to his appeal.
Stir a woman's repressed LONGINGS by adapting te Rake's mix of DANGER and PLEASURE.
3. THE IDEAL LOVER
Most people have dreams in their youth that get shattered or worn with age. They find themselves disappointed by people, events, reality which they cannot match their youthful ideals.
IDEAL LOVERS thrive on people's broken dreams which become life long FANTASIES.
You long for romance.
Advanture.
Lofty spiritual communion.
The IDEAL LOVER reflects YOUR FANTASY.
He or she is an ARTIST in creating the ILLUSIION you require.
In a world of DISENCHANTMENT and baseness there is limitless SEDUCTIVE power in following the path of the Ideal Lover.
4. THE DANDY
Most of us feel trapped within the limited roles that the world expects us to play. We are instantly attracted to those who are more fluid than we are. Those who create their own persona.
Dandies excite us because they cannot be categorized, and hint at the freedom we want for ourselves.
They play with masculinity and femininity.
They fashion their own physical image which is always startling.
Use the power of the Dandy to create an ambiguous, ALLURING PRESENCE which STIRS REPRESSED DESIRES.
5.THE NATURAL
Childhood is the golden paradise we are always consciously or unconsciously trying to re-create.
The Natural embodies the LONG-FOR qualities of childhood such as SPONTANEITY, SINCERITY, UNPRETENTIOUSNESS.
In the presence of THE NATURALS we feel at ease, caught up in their playful spirit, transported back to that golden age. Adopt te POSE of The Natural to neutralize people's defensiveness and infect them with HELPLESS DELIGHT.
6.THE COQUETTE
The ability to delay SATISFACTION is the ULTIMATE ART of seduction.
While waiting the person is held in thrall.
Coquettes are the grand MASTERS OF THE GAME orchestrating a back and forth movement between hope and frustration.
They bait with the promise of REWARD.
The hope of PHYSICAL PLEASURE, happiness, fame by association, power, all of which howerver proves ELUSIVE.
Yet this only makes their targets pursue them the more. Imitate the alternating heat and coolness of the Coquette and you will keep the SEDUCED at your heels.
(More Rules Next Posts)
Posted by Flo on December 7 2007 at 2:32 PM